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As more of our children grow up in single parent homes, they are quick to assume that child rearing is a way to gain more love from another human being. Raising children is a difficult job for any parent of any age. More and more teens are entering this life changing decision only to realize too late how hard it is and how ill prepared they are for the undertaking.

Recognizing an artistically gifted child
Children are often born with a creative instinct of one type of another. Paying attention to the signals they give at a young age will help you, help them find their outlet and medium. A lifelong love and talent may be just within reach for your youngster. To read more on how to do this click here:
 Recognizing an artistically gifted child
Talking and connecting with your teen
Parenting is one of the single most rewarding, yet difficult jobs there are. When they are young, you spend your time teaching, and keeping them safe. As they grow and need you less, you find yourself somehow feeling a disconnect. Teen years are a painful mixture of emotions, hormones, and pressure. Bridging the gap between them and yourself is a challenge, but with determination and patience it can be done. Read more on this here:
Talking and connecting with your teen

Ways to avoid spoiling your kids
Is there anything worse than a spoiled child? Yes, a spoiled adult child, the end result. Lets face it, we all have the yearning to always give our children everything they need and want, but to do so well beyond the childhood years is ridiculous. Being a constant "go to" for all your child's problems turns you into a crutch, they never learn to walk with out. Read more on:  Ways to avoid spoiling your kids



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  1. ladaisiJanuary 22, 2011 at 10:57 AM

    Ah! Such good pointers on avoiding creating a brat. My kiddo is going through his terrible three's now and I just stopped and thought, "What if I'm letting him turn into a monster?"

    There's food for thought.

    Thanks, hon.

    Ladaisi Blog

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