Image via Wikipedia Is there anything worse than a spoiled child ? Yes, a spoiled adult  child, the end result. Lets face it, we all have the yearning to always  give our children  everything they need and want, but to do so well  beyond the childhood years is ridiculous. Being a constant "go to" for  all your child's problems turns you into a crutch, they never learn to  walk with out.  Come up with a plan -  Start teaching your  children early on what you expect out of them. By the time your child is  out of high school, they should have a plan in mind for life. Encourage  them to discuss their plans with you. Offer suggestions, such as  college, trade school , or they are going to have a full time job . If  they seek higher education , via college or trade school and drop out  before completing, teach them the err of their ways by insisting they  pay back any money you spent to put them there. Make sure they  understand what you expect by the time they reach adulthood....
 
 
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